Thurman Thomas & daughter speak out on mental health
Claudine Ewing, WGRZ; 11:28 PM. EDT May 24, 2017

BUFFALO, N.Y. – Thurman Thomas is a household name in Western New York and
in the NFL. Now he’s opening up and talking about mental health, an issue
that many people don’t want to address.

“It’s not about the fame, it’s not about the money, we all have these
problems,” said Thomas. He and his wife Patti endured tough times with
their daughter Annika as she battled anxiety and depression. At times they
thought, ” nothing’s wrong with her, we just need to give her a little bit
more love, snuggle her a little bit more,” but more was needed.

Annika recognized there were problems at an early age when she just didn’t
want to go to school. She would prefer to stay home with her parents and
her dogs.

During her junior year at Orchard Park High School things got bad. Four of
her dogs died in a short time frame, the nation was focused on the unrest
in Ferguson and she said that situation caused her to lose friends. “I felt
like nobody understood me or where I was coming from,” and her parents saw
it. “Everybody was not really understanding her view that ‘this shouldn’t
be happening.”

One day in 2014, Annika hit a breaking point. She drove off, turned her
phone off. Her father was out of town, her mom was home and alerted
police. When Annika returned home, her mom knew it was time for her
daughter to get help.

Annika spent five days at ECMC. It was a turning point because medical
professionals were giving her needed care and she admitted to having
suicidal thoughts. Thurman recalls his daughter saying “I didn’t want to
commit suicide, but if there was a button to push, that would end it right
away, she would have did it.”

Annika left high school during her senior year. At first her parents were
concerned about what people would say, but then quickly concluded, they
didn’t care what others thought, this was about what’s best for Annika.

There are often many stigmas attached to mental illness, despite the fact
that, according to the National Alliance on Mental Illness,
one in five adults in this country experience mental illness every year.

In the African-American community, mental illness hasn’t always been a
topic of conversation. “It’s almost like a pride thing, like I’m going to
be OK, I can get through this.” In fact, Thurman says it’s a problem for
health issues in general. “I’ve had a number of family members that
probably should have lived into their 80’s, but passed away in their 50’s
and 60’s just because they wouldn’t go get a checkup.” He’s also heard
from other athletes dealing with mental health issues with their daughters.

As a 20-year old living in the city, Annika is outspoken about mental
health issues. “It doesn’t have to be this stigma, it doesn’t have to be
this horrible, horrible thing. If it was just common to talk about it and
try to get help, things would be so much better,” she said.

She has earned her GED, plans to attend college in the future. She is
working at Restoration Society after meeting the non-profit’s president
Nancy Singh.

Perhaps the big key to Annika’s recovery is her pit bull, her emotional
support animal. “I think pets are a huge part of recovery for some
people,” she said.

At the 2017 New York Emmy Awards ceremony, a member of the New York Giants,
Brandon Marshall talked about his battle with mental illness. He issued a
call to the media, “I challenge you guys to be more responsible with your
platform with this topic that’s on the frontier and forefront of our
country right now.”

2 On Your Side’s Claudine Ewing asked Thomas about it, he said he’d like to
reach out to Marshall. “If we can take this all across America, because
this is something people really don’t want to talk about and it needs to
be talked about.”

Thurman, Patti and Annika will serve as honorary co-chairs of the 2017
Buffalo Superhero Race and Wellness Walk on June 9 at Delaware
Park. Annika will be the Wellness Warrior. Click here for more information.

The Superhero Race is an annual event that highlights the strength and
diversity of the mental health community of Western New York. Participants
can come dressed as a super hero.

The Mental Health Association of Erie County provides help along with Compeer of
Greater Buffalo .

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